How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 01:15

Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Does having the wrong address on my car insurance invalidate my policy?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Why does a narcissist act like it's nothing when they hurt you?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why are Indians so influenced by the Western culture, when the Indian tradition has so much to give?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Are Indian youths conservative or liberal?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Procrastinates a lot.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What makes cars from companies like Dacia or BYD appealing compared to Tesla, especially in Europe?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Do you feel uncomfortable when you come across cross dressers?
Ask yourself:
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do other British people agree that the UK should reconquer Ireland?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How is it not psychopathic to use someone for sex, even if they agree?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
If my lovely sister sleeps with my boyfriend, what should I do about her?
That's it for today.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What is something you have to share?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).